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complaining

I'm not very good at writing in this blog everyday. I am still getting the hang of it. I don't have Internet at home so anything I do online including this blog I do from my cell phone. I had a very busy weekend, our club had our car show, which was a success. We got through the day with a small amount of drama nothing major. So that was nice. My ex roommates are being very difficult and as much as my husband and I want to teach them a lesson about the value of money and not to cheat the system, we aren't. I think that has been the latest lesson my husband and I are dealing with. The lesson of helping others who are ungrateful and take advantage of you and us doing nothing about it, no hate, no fighting, no talking bad about them. I just wish it wouldn't have ruined a friendship, but that's their choice.

My husband and I have been married a little over 3 years and I think that this year has been the hardest as far as money problems, personal problems, and just stuff. We are kinda at the point where we can't control anything anymore and as much as we try its just not working. So we have to let go and let God. That's really hard. We don't have enough money to pay our bills, we want to move but don't have the money unless we can sell our truck. We want to have children but yet again don't have the money to get the fertility treatments. Oh ya didn't I tell you, we can't have kids naturally. I'm infertile and my husband doesn't have enough little guys that swim straight. We have been trying for 3 years. Nothing. That's another thing that is very trying of my patients. But that's a whole other blog, someday. Back to me complaining to the cyber world. I think our biggest issue right now is really money. We are doing everything we can to bring in the doe but its just never enough. But enough complaining.

I'm very excited to start watching a 4 month old. That will be tons of fun. she is an amazing little girl who has such a bright smile and personality.

Well enough for now. Maybe some more later.

another day another time

What is the point to a blog? Ok what is the point to my blog? I guess it is just to get all my thoughts down in one place. But for me its hard to basically talk to myself. I don't even know if anyone is reading this or not. I have one follower which I'm grateful "how to lose a guy in 10 days" I love this movie. Ya its the best. I could watch it over and over again. And I do...

help in a different way.

If life could just freeze so I can catch my breath and be still just a moment, things might be ok. Help isn't always what your expecting. But at least your getting help. Of course money could always be used. There are always bills to pay. But when someone can't help you in the monetary way and instead help you in another way like getting you groceries, they still deserve the same praise as if they were giving you money right? Wrong, they deserve MORE praise. Why? because they aren't able to give you any money because they can't afford it or whatever the reason may be. Instead they are giving you things that maybe themselves haven't been able to get. And why are they doing it? One answer and one answer only. They love you more...

The week ahead

I think its getting to that time when my husband and I are going to go home and get some dinner, watch a movie, and go to bed. We have a very busy week ahead of us. We are apart of a mini truck club and our annual show is on saturday. Its a huge show and we are very excited about it. If you want to come (which I hope you will) go to sittinpretti.com for all the details. Good night for now my fellow bloggers. Hope tonight serves you well and you have pleasant dreams. Thanks for reading!! :)

The help of Parents

What could be more of a blessing at a time like this? Help from my parents. We currently live off of my husbands income and pay way to much for our apartment. So usually one whole paycheck of my husbands goes to rent and sometimes even that is short. So the 2ND paycheck is the one where we pay all the bills with and go grocery shopping with and any extra. We have basically stretched our self really thin. But thanks to my parents who always seem to be there when there are no answers. Usually my husband does side work and in fact had 2 jobs he was going to do this past weekend but of course they fell through. So there goes extra money needed. So now we are able to pay our bills and maybe pay one of my bills which has been neglected for a long time now. What a relief off our shoulders. I hate telling my husband to work more overtime to get that extra buck. but sometimes it has to be done. The hardest part about it is I hate asking for money and I hate complaining but sometimes I just got to let someone know and cry on someones shoulder. That's where my mother comes in, she has always been there for me and has always allowed me to cry on her shoulder whenever I need it. Thanks mom. I don't know what we would have done this past 3 years of marriage without my parents. They have been there through it all and have been the best example of what marriage looks like. I wish I knew all this when I was a teenager and I didn't want anything to do with them. How many kids say they want to be just like their parents. Well I know I Do...

How does this blog thing work???

I am very new at this blog thing. In fact I tried so hard not to start one but after watching the movie Julie and Julia I thought it might be something fun. Im not looking to write a book, cause Im not a writer. I hated english in school.

So what is the point to having a blog? Is it to help other people? Is it to talk about my self all day everyday for the rest of my life? Is it a hobby? My goal is the help other people. So If I could help other people through this blog then that would be well worth my time. I love children so I could help children or parents who need help with their children. Do you need any help or advice?